TNMFT

There's

No Map
For This.

A raw, unfiltered look at grief, loss of identity,
and the long road back to yourself.

I put together something simple for the early days when you don't know what to do.

You woke up one day and the life you knew was gone. Not gradually — gone. And nobody handed you instructions, because there aren't any.

I started this after my wife died.

This is a place for that. Weekly videos, no script, no filter. Just one person standing in the forest trying to figure out which direction is forward — and sharing the whole messy process out loud.

Grief doesn't only come from death. Divorce. Career loss. Any experience that takes your identity with it. If you've lost your sense of who you are, you're in the right place.

When The Ground Disappears

Six simple things to hold onto when you don't know what to do.
Not a cure. Not a plan. Just something steady in the middle of it.

A short, free guide for the moments when everything feels like it's falling apart.

Honest. Unscripted. Unglamorous.

01

No performance

Stream of consciousness. Whatever is true that week, said out loud.

02

Men, especially

Men are told to hold it together. This is a place to stop holding it together.

03

Beyond death

Grief is grief. Divorce, loss, identity collapse — all of it belongs here.

04

No destination

There's no tidy ending. Just the process, documented in real time.

Weekly videos

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Every week, one honest episode. No script. No map. Just what's actually happening.

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