Grief · Identity · What Comes After
My wife Melissa died in May 2025. This is the record of what happened to who I was, after — and an open hand to anyone walking through the same kind of dark, whatever caused it.
Free — Grief First Aid Kit
What to do in the first impossible days.
A short, plain-language guide for the part nobody prepares you for. No spam — just the kit, and new entries when they go up.
Check your inbox for your download link — and your spam/junk folder too, just in case. First emails from a new sender sometimes land there.
Start Here
The video that marks where this journey actually begins.
Two days after losing Melissa suddenly, an unfiltered look at the shock, the grief, and the first attempt at moving forward.
Watch the origin entry →Latest
One year after losing my wife, I can feel something changing.
Most Helpful Episodes
The first real entry — context for everything after.
Field Notes
This space will hold newsletters, essays, and the longer pieces that don't fit in fifteen minutes on camera. Nothing published here yet.
Resources
What to do in the first impossible days — the same kit offered above, if you scrolled past it.
Get it via email →A private group for men further down the same road. (Approval required.)
Join the group →Free, peer-to-peer grief support meetings — open to anyone navigating loss.
Visit the site →A free resource hub built specifically for grieving men.
Visit the site →